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Gaslighting: Is it all my fault? – Broken by Manipulation
Did you know that there is a natural tendency for abusers to find their victims? They don’t look for the strong that they can break, they can sense your weaknesses through whatever walls you have...
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Six Months of Happy Moments
Today marks the day I have been living with my boyfriend and Master for six months. It is not only that. I also moved countries, even continents, six months ago. My life changed dramatically. I went...
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You Gotta Talk, Darling! – Conscious Communication in Relationships
Image Source I am a good listener: I don’t judge and I am open-minded. I don’t start talking about myself when someone shares their struggles with me. Genuinely, I like to listen and validate other...
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Body Love: My Master’s Body
© DeviantSuccubus I have this weird thing about being physically attracted to someone. I am just not feeling it. I can count the number of times I felt an instant physical attraction to another...
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Dissociative Identity Disorder and Relationships – It’s Complicated!
Image Source I wasn’t sure if I should write this post because, well, it is complicated. I feel like with most of what I write, people can still find points they can relate to or are curious about....
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Love Made Me Do It – Moving Countries
© DeviantSuccubus I don’t do relationships the same way most people do, and I definitely do love differently. Love for me is a feeling, and as that, it is something that everyone experiences. But...
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Emotional Intimacy: I need a deeper connection than touch
Image Source The first thing she notices when his hand lifts from covering her eyes is the 19th century canopy bed. Her senses are being tickled by the scented candles he had lit, and placed all over...
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Love Letter to My Master
Image from Pixabay Dear Master, can you believe it? That we ended up together? I sometimes can’t fathom that I am so lucky to be with someone who knows everything about me, and still wants to stay....
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Toxic Family and Toxic Friendships
Image from Pixabay There are so many ideas and terms thrown around these days when it comes to describing people who have a negative influence on our lives. Some of them those terms are narcissist,...
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Co-Dependency and Inter-Dependency in Relationships
Image from Pixabay There are a lot of theories around the term co-dependency. It is often used in the self-help community to describe unhealthy behaviour in relationships and family dynamics. But it...
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Respect in D/s – Redefining Respect in Play
Image from Pixabay Most well-functioning relationships have a strong foundation in some basic ideas of honesty, communication and respect. If you are unable to be yourself and trust the person you are...
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Long Distance Relationships and Staying Connected
Image from Pixabay Long distance relationships are difficult, even with all the modern possibilities to stay connected. The physical touch, the smell of the person that you love, the intimacy of a hug...
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Lockdown: Changes, Fears and Positives
Image from Pixabay Everyone in the world is experiencing some sort of restrictions on their daily lives at the moment. In some countries it is about a total lockdown, others have only certain rules in...
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Our D/s Dynamic needed a Boost again
Image from Pixabay No relationship is perfect. Mine definitely isn’t. But I am more happy than not when it comes to the way things usually look like for us. A big part of our connection is the D/s...
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Limits and Boundaries in D/s Relationships
©DeviantSuccubus It is an interesting fact that both my Master and I first learnt about boundaries when we were doing volunteer work in mental health. I have always had a difficult time saying no and...
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I Saw You – But Did You See Me Too?
Do you want to dance with meThrough one of those lonely nightsIt’s more than a dreamMaybe we’re reaching the gardens of delight“Dance with Me” – Alphaville I remember the first time I saw you. I was...
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Emotional and Physical Intimacy & D/s
©DeviantSuccubus Intimacy is such a difficult concept to describe. It could just be about certain aspects of closeness, of physical touch and connection. You can be emotionally intimate with friends...
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Yearning For Someone
Image Source I fall for people easily. I have had so many crushes in my life, that I am sure I wouldn’t even be able to recall all of them. They were just someone in my life that I felt incredibly...
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The Sadist Who Emotionally Abused Me
Image from Pixabay TW: self-harm, emotional abuse I don’t think much about my past relationships or intimate encounters. Some of them were beautiful, others were traumatic. They all shaped me in terms...
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My Sexual Journey
Image from Pixabay I love sex. When you come to my blog, that is probably one of the first things you notice about me. I am a very sexual person and I don’t hide that fact. But it took me many years...
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